For Family Caregivers Navigating Dementia

Stop Surviving. Start Protecting

You Didn't Sign Up for This

One diagnosis changed everything. Now you're managing medications, researching memory care facilities, fighting with insurance, fielding calls from worried siblings, and somehow still showing up for your own life.

You're exhausted. You're overwhelmed. And you're terrified you'll make a mistake that costs your family everything.

You're not failing. You're just doing this without a plan.

 

The Truth No One Tells You

Dementia doesn't just take memories. It takes money.

$750,000 - the lifetime cost for families who don't have a financial protection plan.

$91,248/year - the average cost of memory care in Texas.

$35,000/year - what the average family caregiver loses in income.

The system isn't designed to help you. It's designed to capture your family's wealth while you're too overwhelmed to notice.

But it doesn't have to be this way.

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Jessica didn’t choose this path. She was called to it. Here’s the story of how caregiving for her mother became the mission that built The Proactive Caregiver.

 

Which Phase Are You In?

Every caregiver goes through stages. Most don't recognize them until they're drowning.

DENIAL PHASE "Something's off, but maybe it's just aging..." You're noticing changes but not ready to face what they mean.

CRISIS PHASE "Everything is falling apart at once." The diagnosis hit. Decisions are piling up. You're in emergency mode.

BURNOUT PHASE "I'm fine. I can handle this." You're running on fumes, hiding exhaustion behind a smile, losing yourself in the process.

SUNSET TRAIL PHASE "They're gone, but I don't know who I am anymore." The caregiving ended, but the grief and identity loss are just beginning.

Wherever you are, there's a path forward.

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Ways to Become a Proactive Caregiver

TIER ONE

FOUNDATIONAL SUPPORT

"I need help, but I can't do everything right now."

Monthly group coaching, self-paced curriculum, and a community that gets it.

Starting at $89/month

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TIER TWO

GUIDED
GROWTH

"I want real change, not just survival."

Bi-weekly small groups, personalized caregiving plan, and 1:1 coaching access.

Starting at $249/month

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TIER THREE

DEEP TRANSFORMATION

"I can't afford to do this wrong."

The highest level of support for complex situations and high-stakes decisions.

Starting at $400/month

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TOOLBOX

THE CAREGIVER'S TRINITY TOOLBOX

Align your finances, mindset, and spirit — on your own time. Self-paced guides covering the three pillars that keep caregivers grounded and able to flourish. Start with what you need most.

From $275 (Full toolkit $700 | Members save 20%)

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Not sure where to start?

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No pitch. Just clarity.

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Why Families Trust Jessica

28 years in finance. Including corporate accounting at the $12 billion subsidiary level. I know how money moves and how to protect it.

14 years as a licensed CPA. I don't guess about financial strategy. I build it.

Certified Dementia Practitioner. 40 hours of continuing education every two years. I stay current because your family deserves someone who understands the disease AND the dollars.

470+ YouTube videos. 110+ podcast episodes. Real answers to the questions you're Googling at 2am.

14 speaking engagements. 2,780+ caregivers reached. I train the professionals who are supposed to help you — and I tell them what they're getting wrong.

Personal Dementia Caregiver for 15 Years+

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What Makes This Different

Most caregiver resources offer emotional support. That matters — but it's not enough.

Most financial advisors don't understand dementia. Most dementia coaches don't understand finance. And nobody's connecting the dots for YOUR family.

The Proactive Caregiver is different:

✓ Strategy, not just support
✓ Financial protection built into every plan
✓ A CPA who speaks fluent dementia
✓ Coaching that covers the full journey — from denial to sunset
✓ A community of caregivers who get it

This isn't about coping. It's about protecting.

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Your Family Can't Afford to Wait

Every month without a plan costs you:

  • Money that could have been protected
  • Decisions made in crisis instead of clarity
  • Relationships strained by confusion and conflict
  • Your own health, career, and sanity

The families who thrive through this season aren't the ones with the most money or the most time. They're the ones who got strategic early.

Become the Proactive Caregiver your family needs.

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Reviews

“Wow, she really is a package deal! You gave me insight I would have never considered that my attorney and financial advisor didn’t cover at all.”
- Roseanne S., NJ

“I never thought about setting boundaries or what they needed to be while I cared for my uncle until I attended this session. My Family was all too ready to let me take on all the responsibility.”
- Confidential Caregiver, CA

“Jessica, you don’t know how much this means! I don’t need the high-level neurologist telling me what’s happening to Dad’s brain. I needed everything you just shared about what to expect,  what it looks like, and what it will do to me along the way.”
- Jennifer S., CA

 

Resources for Your Journey

The Proactive Caregiver books will inspire caregivers surrounded by the darkness of fear, anxiety, and overwhelm with the light of acceptance and empowerment. These books will encourage you to be a healthier caregiver and teach you to appreciate the role model you have become as a caregiver for your children.

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Do I Need an Elder Law Attorney, and What Will It Cost?

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What Is a Medicaid Spend-Down and How Does It Work in Texas?

A Texas Medicaid spend-down legally cuts a parent’s countable assets to the $2,000 limit. See what counts, what’s exempt, and the 60-month look-back.

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